You have got to be kidding me!.... Grabbed another Oak to de-Particle (since it had failed back to a ready to upload state and was not running the loaded sketch) and just for fun tried to upload the simple LED blink code using Particle. It took about 4 to 5 retires but damn it loaded the sketch. It's just maddening knowing that is probably some stupid but simple bug that is causing it to be unreliable. Does anyone have a clue? Erik is probably the best resource but he seems busy with other more profitable things.
UPDATE: Well the successful upload via Particle (after 4 to 5 retries) was just a one time event. It's back to endless retries with no success, so that's it, time to de-Particle the rest of my Oak's and be done with it. I'm probably the last one to do this. I assume most, if not all, Oak owners have already moved on and removed their Oak's from Particle.