God here

Well, the two blinking Oaks are still happily pulsing away... both the P1 LED blinker and the NeoPixel blinker. So a 1000 ms delay and nothing special done (wifi active, particle active) seems to be fine. The neopixel doing it's rainbow thing seems to be working just fine... this is ... day 2? and it is still trundling along with consistent 5120 ms animations, and around a 5000ms wifi connect delay. So it would seem so far that neopixel with wifi off is just fine also.
btw, i noticed the nexopixelbus library you're using has this note in the github readme - "This is the most functional library for the Esp8266 as it provides solutions for all Esp8266 module types even when WiFi is used." - so it may not be a coincidence. The developer, Michael, appears to have done quite a bit of ESP8266 specific tuning in it, so that probably explains why it is more stable.
Drats... do I need to provision yet another oak now? :-P Well, it needs to be unpacked, updated, and registered to my account some time
