Keep trying everyday maybe it will work - did anyone go this route and eventually it worked?
That's more or less what I did. Some of my boards connected quickly to the Particle cloud. Others took many attempts but it eventually worked.
Get one of those serial boards and try the OakRestore way - I am worried I may brick my Oaks but if it worked for many people, I would try it.
I think part of the problem is that people confuse a working app with with bricking. You must remember that once you load your own app, it replaces the existing initial base one. So the LED might not flash anymore and it may no longer be visible as a WiFi AP anymore. But that does not mean its bricked. It just means your own app is running. (This concept confused me also in the beginning.
But having said that, I have no doubt that at at least two of my Oaks really got bricked but I can at least confirm the serial unbrick method worked for me . I've done it several times.
Get one of those serial boards and try the OakRestore way -
I highly recommend it. It is also invaluable to me as a debug tool as well. (I can't imagine trying to work without a serial debug output on this)
You can also just get a FTDI USB to TTL cable like this one I use:
http://www.dx.com/p/ft232-to-usb-ttl-wire-integrated-terminal-cable-for-programmer-black-95cm-203717#.Vrr7L1nhNaQWait until later when things will be more ironed out?
I think once you can get past the problem of connecting to the particle cloud, then loading your own apps onto the Oak works quite reliably. I have no doubt things will become more stable over time, but its quite fun to get into the thick of it already.
One thing I think would have helped a lot of Kickstarters is better documentation that is a bit more chronological and logical. Instead I find it a bit all over the place with little bits on all kind of places. I think I probably wasted several hours just wading through everything to form a good understanding of what I actually needed to get started. This is also not a criticism to Erik, but I think if he anticipated that new enthusiastic backers will get confused by things that is not documented well before shipping the rewards, then it would have saved himself and lots of the backers lots of time and frustration.
The product itself is quite remarkable and I'm still very happy I backed it. And I'm thinking of nice things to do with them all the time.