I have 2 types of LED's in use. The standard LED's are 2.6 or 3.0 volts, but I think they are 20mA, They are pretty bright.
The 12 volt led's I'm using are led tapes. There are basically 3 led's per inch, they are resistored to run at 7 to 12 volts, I have no idea what the amps is, but there could be 20 to 30 inches of tape on a circuit.
I'm starting to consider using an opto-isolator. I remember an electronics class 25 years ago using them for a couple projects. I think it would separate the circuits and work like a stitch(I think)
I really just need these to work like a switch, The circuits will either need to be on or off, there will be no to adjust the brightness. A relay would work fine, but I don't want to have the click as the relay flips.