Well it's 6A outside of this board. The mains fuse on the board will probably be a 500mA fuse or something.
I did a bit of searching in the store, and for the terminals, I decided to go with this: (as there are no 7 pole versions) one 4p (5.08mm) +one 3p (5.08mm) for the 230v side, they will be tight together. And then a 4p 2.54mm terminal for the + - and input. Different size and completely separated should be good.
I'll work on redrwaing the terminals in the software so that it looks better, and more clear. I think the symbol I'm using is for some kind of capacitor

It's true that I don't have to go with SMD resistors. I will try some next week, and if they are too much work then I'll just use thru hole stuff
Placing the AMicro/Digispark on the stackable headers gives me tons of space to put stuff under the card too.
Yeah, I was trying to find a good alternative. Was going for Triacs, but then i "need" an optocoupler too, and it was just a bit too much for me

I guess it's still an option tho, I have lots of triacs lying around here and optocouplers are cheap.
Good find! I knew they were joined internally, I just didn't think of doing it that way! That's a lot better, I'll definetly do that.
I was looking into using a seven darlington array to aid in the switching. I've understood how you can use transistors (and relays, triacs thyristors and so on) for switching, but I never really understood using it as an amplifier.
If I make one with a darlington, could you give me a few pointers in what kind of resistors and such that I would need? I'll edit it in here as soon as I'm done with it!
*edit* So, here it is. Worked a few of your tips in, and a darlington. It's getting pretty crowded and the darlington prohibits a few from the pins on the micro to be used properly. I'll rework the digispark version next. ->
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/524696/Arduino/Rboard.r3.42d-Amicro.PNG <- Latest "A Micro"
So, what should I use for the resistors for that? And do I need resistors after the darlington too? I just can't figure out exactly how it works =/
Not sure if optocouplers + triacs would take less or more space, (probably a bit more), but it's just my impression that maybe a triac would be more durable. It harder to switch if you want a big one tho, so then the darlington would be nice. (Or maybe it isn't? I'm still not sure how those optocouplers work, are they like switches?)
*edit 2* Link to the darlington
http://www.st.com/web/en/resource/technical/document/datasheet/CD00001244.pdf*edit3* So I did a total rework of the digispark setup. Zoomed out and realized that it's FREAKING TINY! So anyway, I upped the trace sice and clearance, jammed a fuse and darlington in there just for fun.
This time with the resistors AFTER the darlington. Just because I still don't know any better.
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https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/524696/Arduino/Rboard.r2.8fd-digispark.PNG <-Latest Digispark