Ok, beautiful (sort of)! That sounds fixable.
You should be able to put the Oak back into safe/config mode (although I seem to think it stays in config mode until the first program is loaded). Connect to it's access point, and instead of using softap to configure it, navigate to
http://192.168.0.1/device-id in a web browser. It should respond with a device ID, and the claim staus ('c"). If it says 0, it means the Oak wasn't claimed (linked to your Particle account). It it says '1', it should have been, so is a problem I don't know how to resolve.
If it says it hasn't been claimed ("c:":0), you can go through the
manual claim process documented on the wiki. You basically go to the Particle Build IDE, and add a device to your account by entering the deviceID.
Hope that fixes that Oak up for you!